100 Most POWERFUL Sistas On Twitter.

In a time when Black Women are NOT looked upon favorably, it brings my heart such joy & pleasure to present to you “The 100 Most Powerful Black Women On Twitter” List! According to BlackWeb2.0, they used Klout and Twittergrader, two online reputation measurement tools, to compile a list of the 100 most powerful black women on Twitter. These women have gained a tremendous amount of influence on Twitter by amassing a large number of followers, retweets, and memberships on user lists.

Now I don’t know how the HELL KAT STACKS got on this list, but the rest of these women are PHENOMENAL! They omitted quite a few I can think of off the top of my head. But for the most part, I follow MOST of these ladies myself, and I’m proud to be able to call many of them Friend.

CONGRATULATIONS LADIES! You’ve Earned It.

-“The BklynBandette.” Mr. Hollywood’s Co-Defendant.

Rank	Picture	Profile	Followers	Following	Updates	Listed	Tweet
1		AngelaSimmons Angela Renee Simmons | LA live, love, life	262,347	140	4,678	2,679
2		OfficialKimora Kimora Lee Simmons | In the Fab Lane Model,Mogul,Mom! Designer, TV personality, Author, Perfumista, Married 2 Djimon Hounsou, Mother of Ming Lee, Aoki Lee+ Kenzo Lee. Living Life n the FAB Lane!	190,197	964	15,189	2,824
3		TherealTaraji Taraji P. Henson | Everywhere Love IS Taraji aka TJ was born and raised in Washington DC. Single mother and doin the damn thang!	232,269	160	232,274	3,632
4		NICKIMINAJ Nicki MinajOfficial Nicki Minaj Twitter. Myspace.com/nickiminaj	1,126,909	606	3,173	16,058
5		ReaganGomez Reagan Gomez | Cali WorldHi. It’s me. I’m a wife, mommy, and I do a little bit of acting. I TWEET. A LOT. LOVES MY BLOCK BUTTON. IF ITS 2 MUCH, LOVE YOUR UNFOLLOW BUTTON. THANK YOU:)	52,020	458	26,177	877
6		TRINArockstarr TRINA | WORLDWIDE!MILLION $ GIRL!! Baddest Chick In The Game!! Recording Artist & Boss Chick!! New Album AMAZIN’ in stores NOW!! youtube.com/missTRINAdiva	275,085	534	7,279	3,586
7		MissKeriBaby keri hilson | ATLdesigner of audible art•lover of all things houndstooth•candle enthusiast•appreciator of design•i dream in color•sleep sold separately	737,765	221	4,286	9,848
8		aliciakeys Alicia Keys | New York CityLight Bearing Artist/songwriter/musician/producer /actress/activist/people person	2,130,379	134	934	25,879
9		TiaMowry Tia Mowry | Los Angeles, CaI LOVE love and LOVE to be in LOVE. I am an actress, a wife, and proud to be who I am! I have no regrets and give 110% in everything I do! Live, Love, and Eat	297,135	91	6,371	3,473
10		PaulaAbdul The Real Paula Abdul | Los Angeles, CAThe Real Paula Abdul – American pop singer, dancer, choreographer, actress and television personality.	1,718,112	2,092	5,135	11,460
11		JanelleMonae Janelle Monae | MetropolisThe ArchAndroid is in Stores EVERYWHERE. And on iTunes: http://tinyurl.com/getArchAndroid	97,819	126	3,360	2,653
12		MsLaurenLondon Lauren London | CaliWhat lies behind us, and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us. – Ralph Waldo Emerson
13		MonicaMyLife Monica | Atlanta, GALil Rocko & Romelo’s Mommy	357,374	51	8,670	4,760
14		4everBrandy Brandy Norwood | The momentSinger, Actress, Poet, Executive Producer, Mother, Daughter, and Ray J’s Sister	704,639	1,083	3,996	5,496
15		MsTerryMcMillan Terry McMillan | onlinewriter,idealist,truth-seeker troublemaker, loyal friend, bad singer, textile designer.	23,377	78	5,773	647
16		tyrabanks Tyra Banks | FiercelandBusiness woman by day, SMIZE-r by night. Favs: ANYTHING in BBQ sauce & perfecting H2T poses in the mirror.	1,880,765	561	1,064	19,703
17		StarJonesEsq Star Jones | New YorkAn American Lawyer Chick who is FREE, BLACK and GROWN.	47,692	128	8,870	1,145
18		missfree Free | look behind you lolV & Radio Personality, Writer and all around lover of the people!www.freesworld.com	130,667	657	15,631	1,165
19		epiphanygirl chrisette michele | in my dreams!grammy award winning, singer songwriter poet actress, def jam recording artist, friend to many, uber-girly moi!!!	95,181	408	10,063	1,664
20		rihanna Rihanna | New YorkCome here RUDE BOY!!	1,186,006	6	168	16,333
21		TheRealJordin Jordin Sparks | 602 BabyHiii! Joining the cast of In The Heights on Broadway starting August 19, 2010! Got some big things coming up! SO EXCITED!	590,983	303	9,291	12,373
22		NeNeLeakes NeNe Leakes | Atlanta, GAATLANTA’S REALEST HOUSEWIFE Author, Philanthropist, Actress, Host, Mom, Independent Business woman on the move & Outspoken Loyal Friend! NOW WHAT’S NEXT	149,679	255	2,323	2,176
23		nicolerichie Nicole Richie	1,266,993	135	1,771	15,360
24		iHateKatStacks Kat Stacks | ÜT: 40.92517,-73.895907Management contact e-mail Kevin Wales bookingKatStacks@gmail.com	87,121	160	19,258	1,329
25		RealMichelleW Michelle Williams | CHICAGOThe Greatest	80,908	308	19,013	1,576
26		DawnRichard Dawn Richard / NEON | IN A PALACE OF DREAMSITS THAT DIRTY MONEY…6-28-10 THE LAST TRAIN TO PARIS DANITY KANE THE COMIC OUT NOW ON DANITYKANECOMICS.COM Myspace.com/dawnrichard	181,406	597	4,781	1,743
27		EstelleDarlings EstelleCome and Take ALL OF ME…	116,680	553	23,059	2,180
28		solangeknowles solange knowleswater, melanin, bones, blood.	427,145	117	8,894	5,655
29		kekeinaction Keke Palmer | Los Angeles, CaliforniaAward winning actress and singer who rose to fame for her performance in the film Akeelah and the Bee.	139,071	7,328	8,429	5,946
30		TinyMajorMama Tameka Cottle | ÜT: 35.086577,-90.638499Bio Mother, Singer, Songwriter, Producer….a real boss!!!	164,587	160	1,593	1,546
31		TEYANATAYLOR TEYANA M.J. TAYLOR | HARLEMMMI AM MCLOVIN	218,054	273	7,636	2,858
32		MissyElliott Missy ElliottI have written or produced for All Ya Favorite Singers! Im A Stan for GOD PERIOD! My Dream is to see Female Rappers Unite and go on 106 and Park together!!!	71,937	467	7,115	1,565
33		bevysmith bevysmith | NYCI’m Bevy Smith and I’m a gal about town! Definitely not a socialite or a fashionista! Just Bevy!	12,919	557	53,768	294
34		MissJia Miss Jia: INSOMNIAC | ATLBlogger + Dirty Panties radio show co-host + Advocate & Founder of the B-tch, You Think I Give a F-ck crew. I am not the standard, I am the exception.	12,420	328	133,389	632
35		Kandi Kandi Burruss | Atlanta, Ga.singer, songwriter, producer, actress, entrepreneur, cast member on Real House Wives Of Atlanta and last but not least MOTHER!!!!	194,025	890	12,935	3,617
36		hollyrpeete Holly Robinson Peete | CALICo-Host of CBS’ The TALK actor,author, philanthropist, and crazy momma of 4…??? NFL FOOTBALL	50,279	553	14,049	1,896
37		KylaPratt Kyla Pratt | CaliLaughn @ these fake twitter pages….Thanx 4 the luv	106,965	207	5,870	1,014
38		DenyceLawton Denyce Lawton | D.C. / NYC / HollywoodActress (Watch Tyler Perry House of Payne Everyday & New episodes Every Wed night on TBS)	24,410	620	12,574	430
39		SherriEShepherd Sherri Shepherd | New York, NYJeffrey’s Mother, Actress, Co-Host of The View, Star of Lifetime Sitcom Sherri, Jesus Groupie, Karaoke Queen, Single & Loving Life & All Around Sweet Person	190,156	173	4,599	3,380
40		MariahCarey Mariah Carey	3,168,184	26	950	24,973
41		therealmarymary Erica n Tina | Los Angeles CaliforniaMary Mary- singers, songwriters, sisters mothers, wives, 2 light skinned chicks that REALLY love God!	50,161	283	6,644	1,195
42		alexandramusic Alexandra Burke | LondonStart Without You out September 5th	113,243	187	4,489	1,567
43		V_Simmons Vanessa Simmons | My Own PlanetJust Me…	221,140	164	3,848	1,966
44		LeToyaLuckett LeToya Luckett | WorldwideHey ya’ll! My new album, Lady Love is IN STORES NOW!	115,309	147	2,931	1,589
45		JanetJackson Janet Jackson | Los AngelesThe OFFICIAL Janet Jackson Twitter	1,188,470	14	154	15,877
46		RASHEEDAGAPEACH RASHEEDA | ATLANTA,GABooking Contact is dlo117@gmail.com Artist,Entrepreneur,SongWriter,Boss Chick & BBC Is Da movement,Real Friend, Female Hiphop Entertainer, Georgia Peach Baby!	37,797	278	16,900	705
47		TheYBF YBF CHIC | Everywhere/ D.C. areaYour Source Of Celebrity Fabulousness & Foolywang.	31,932	579	4,468	619
48		fatbellybella ErykahBadu | im in mid airi will not pop 4u or break 4u or hate for u or even hate u	201,860	2,495	7,404	6,013
49		Candace_Parker Candace Parker | Somewhere between point A&BFormer University of Tennessee Lady Vol, currently playing for the WNBA’s Los Angeles Sparks and for the Euroleague’s UMMC Ekaterinburg club.	51,529	116	6,333	1,289
50		donnabrazile Donna Brazile | Washington, DCVeteran Democratic political strategist, adjunct professor, author, and syndicated columnist.	47,339	46	1,531	1,937
51		maryjblige Mary J. Blige | ÜT: 29.743639,-95.457766	1,027,036	53	1,278	10,254
52		MISSMYA MYA | In My Skinwww.tmatf.org, http://www.myamya.com, http://www.beautyandthestreets.net	123,433	577	3,291	2,592
53		Oprah Oprah Winfrey | Chicago, ILLive Your Best Life	4,075,624	19	99	45,343
54		juneAmbrose juneAmbrose | New York CityAuthor of Effortless Style, Fashion Designer & Stylist. Contact: marc@modesquad.com	111,115	240	11,774	1,127
55		Dondria [[DoNDri@]] | atL//dALLAsSoSOdEf RecOrding ArTiSt, YouTuBe PhEnom. [[DONDRIA VS. PHATFFFAT AUGUST 17, 2010!!!!!!! #LEGGOOOOOO]]	46,219	1,150	14,110	810
56		Venuseswilliams Venus Williams| Palm Beach Gardens, FlTennis player, big sister, grown up girl. Double Tap!	574,813	41	1,722	6,238
57		ciara Ciara | ÜT: 33.822704,-84.50834	538,710	54	878	7,830
58		CMilianOfficial Christina Milian | Everywhere..Never in one placeSo in Love with love and the beautiful family God has blessed me with. I feel so blessed to create. In more ways than one	52,780	99	1,083	871
59		Necole Bitchie Necole Bitchie| Miami B*tch!!!Life’s A B*tch…So I just Blog That MuthaF**ka!!	140,046	481	23,461	2600
60		Shontelle_Layne Shontelle Layne | LUSHLAND, WORLDWIDE!SINGER/SONGWRITER/ENTERTAINER	35,428	224	32,045	1,028
61		harrislacewell Harris-Lacewell | Princeton and New OrleansPrinceton Prof, MSNBC contributor, columnist for The Nation.	17,472	320	12,622	1,932
62		MsSelitaEbanks Selita Ebanks | Everywhere!Model-Victoria’s Secret, Sports Illustrated, editorial, etc. Philanthropist – http://www.shineonsierraleone.org http://www.newyorkersforchildren.org	23,712	116	4,748	695
63		JeanGreasy JeanGrae | In my skin.It’s a bad time for the empire.	26,246	555	35,196	1,062
64		TameraMowryTwo Tamera Mowry | Los Angeles, Ca.Live, Love, Laugh. I’m known as an actress, producer, and inspirational speaker and I live by the motto.	163,187	86	2,447	2,366
65		JeanetteJenkins Jeanette Jenkins | HOLLYWOODCELEBRITY TRAINER, NUTRITIONIST, TV HEALTH AND FITNESS CORRESPONDENT, AUTHOR, HEALTHY LIFESTYLE COACH, PRODUCER, BUSINESS WOMAN, ENTREPRENEUR	13,286	539	6,881	329
66		TheRealLRaye LisaRaye | right hereActress, spokesmodel, mother, business woman…and FIRST LADY!!!	51,689	98	7,028	880
67		TheRealTahiry Tahiry*Media & Bookings inquiries to durand.solange@gmail.com* @xsxdx	27,271	179	7,810	532
68		iamkelis kelis | New York, NYArtist & Professional Chef	104,741	0	821	2,107
69		FarrahFranklin Farrah Franklin | Cali BabyFemale BOSS/ Singer/ Actress/ Producer **The One & Only Farrah Franklin ** 100.999% ORGANIC/REAL, Lol. BOOKINGS CONTACT : Femaleboss818@gmail.com	25,115	24,390	7,141	423
70		shanell_SnL Shanell. | Worldwide.YOUNG MONEY Singer, Songwriter, Choreographer…YOUR FANTASY! XOXOX	76,133	201	3,876	1,748
71		faydra_deon Faydra Deon | The DMV (DC-MD-VA)follower of Christ; QUEEN of QUESTIONS (& Grammar); Computer Apps. Trainer; Website Designer; WordPress Tipster & Customizer; AKA; DC Social Media Examiner	11,236	10,371	81,296	303
72		DryerBuzz DryerBuzz.com | UniversaCombing the headlines to bring you the buzz. One of the FIRST – Veteran Brand Master and Boss Lady of Social Change Buzz. Editor of DryerBuzz.com.	4,557	3,222	39,112	155
73		thisisNIVEA NIVEA akaRandyWatsonA kind spirit that wishes her name on twitter could remain 1RandyWatson! Hahahahaha!	18,996	152	2,633	180
74		Shaunie_O Shaunie O’Neal | Where I’m atWonderwoman	38,013	192	5,103	383
75		kimcoles Kim Coles | EVERYWHERE!actress comedian GODDESS!! KIMCOLESINC.COM Laughter=LOVE!	11,847	1,677	5,094	582
76		indiaarie India.Arie | ÜT: 33.794601,-84.148157artist & explorer on a mission to spread love healing peace and joy through words and music	44,991	219	1,255	1,263
77		TichinaArnold Tichina Arnold | God only knowsIt’s nice 2 B IMPORTANT but it’s more important 2 B NICE! Live your life 2 the fullest.	46,589	140	976	700
78		Soledad_OBrien Soledad O’Brien | New YorkCNN Anchor and Special Correspondent	33,977	179	736	1,773
79		IAMQUEENLATIFAH Queen Latifah | EverywhereActor/Rapper/Singer/Producer	1,111,080	34	274	9,546
80		afrobella afrobella | ChicagoBeauty, hair and culture blogger extraordinaire. Often imitated, never duplicated. According to some, I’m the Godmother of Brown Beauty Blogging!	9,680	2,698	31,665	753
81		MiSSHONEYB MiSS HONEY B. | A-T-L-A-N-T-A. but iREP VA.ALL I NEED IS ONE MIC- Nas	8,310	272	35,304	114
82		MeaganGood Meagan GoodThe Official Meagan Good Page,(please dont be offended that I dont follow,I hav my @s on my phone,my intention is to try to respond whenever im on)	87,873	0	3,629	1,505
83		lalahhathaway lalah hathaway | jupiter- south sidemusician, and supreme gadget girl.	21,313	68	5,951	640
84		angelonfire Angel Laws | NYC & N.C.creator & editor of CONCRETELOOP.com & ANGELONFIRE.com	8,280	854	22,765	396
85		MsJillMJones Jill Marie Jones | JUPITERI SOAR HIGH! WINGS UN-CLIPPED…FEET NOT BOUND, FOR I AM A BUTTERFLY! And when I’m not orbiting Jupiter…I do a little acting on the side.	11,032	76	2,086	176
86		jacquereid jacque reid | NYCNational tv and radio personality	4,727	465	2,920	141
87		SHEEmusic SHEE | Empire & Garden StateWhen you refer to a woman you say “she,” add an “e” for everything a woman is or aspires to be. That’s me, ??SHEE??™ …the quintessential hip-hop female.	136,235	113,086	15,132	3,760
88		jodywatley Jody Watley | WorldAlways Evolving Renaissance Woman. Grammy Winning Artist. Working on 10th solo album CHAMELEON	16,860	167	9,966	795
89		shaunssanctuary Shaun Robinson | Los AngelesTV journalist, Access Hollywood, Author of EXACTLY AS I AM for teen girls on self-esteem, Speaker, Producer, Motown Gal	8,988	150	4,628	329
90		faraichideya Farai Chideya | NYC and points N/S/E/WMulti-media journalist; reporter on race, generational identity, and politics; and author of four books including novel Kiss the Sky.	6,566	649	10,958	518
91		ashanti ASHANTI | NEW YORKCEO of Written Entertainment *OFFICIALLY TWEETING SINCE* JAN 1 2010!!!	50,886	153	3,786	1,149
92		danamo Danyel Smith | New York City[writer, editor, screenwriter, content creator/manager] a former everything. a future everything.	10,750	893	33,692	328
93		Goapele GoapeleI am a Singer Songwriter	33,241	581	1,317	933
94		sistertoldja Sister Toldja | I live in Brooklyn, baby.Writer. Media Personality. Provocateur. NOT your next best friend, but I love you still.	6,348	1,238	38,827	454
95		kimwayans Kim WayansActress, Comedian, Playwright. Author of Amy Hodgepodge, children’s book series featuring multiracial main character Amy Hodges.	18,260	3,371	4,114	635
96		sharoncarpenter Sharon Carpenter | New York/LondonAnchor / Reporter	8,669	236	7,038	185
97		tonibraxton Toni Braxton | Los AngelesSinger/cakemaker	55,075	67	743	1,791
98		NiecyNash niecy nashActress, commediane, mother. Making the world better one joke at a time! Get into it!	38,355	67	539	1,317
99		aishatyler Aisha Tyler | Los Angeles, CAI’m a comedian. I’m an actor. I play Lana Kane on Archer. I’ve been on lots of TV shows. I like steak. I just shot you on XBL. Sorry if it stings.	20,232	198	4,432	1,350
100		Dr_Michelle Dr.Michelle Callahan | New York CityTV Host, Author of Ms. Typed, Relationship Expert, Life Coach, Developmental Psychologist. Media Favorite	4,151	412	3,005	127

Atlanta Housewife Uses “N-Word” In Public.

The ‘Real Housewives of Atlanta‘ star, Kim Zolciak, appeared on her cast-mate Kandi Burruss‘ weekly UStream show, ‘Kandi Koated Nights’ on March 10 and said the N-word in reference to a popular group. “Yeah, I remember listening to NWA back in the day, one of my favorite songs was the one where he talks about the girl p***y poppin. Ya’ll know NWA, N****rs With Attitudes, it was 15 years ago, but we still love it,” she said in reference to the groundbreaking West Coast gangsta rap group. Burruss, the former Xscape frontwoman, pulled Zolciak aside and out of the camera shot to discuss the first N-word reference. She tried to justify the mention by saying, “I know everyone was a little shocked by Kim saying the real word for N in N.W.A., but this is real TV, anyway it was crazy. We had a fun night and we hope to see you guys back.”

Highly Unlikely.

-“The BklynBandette.” Mr. Hollywood’s Co-Defendant.

A.J. Jewell Walked Away From Deadly Brawl!

This Just In: Sources say that A.J. Jewell was walking and talking after the deadly brawl that may have ended his life. Initially, it appeared as though Mr. Jewell was left for dead in front of the night club- Body Tap- where the brawl took place. Not the case. Witnesses say that not only was Mr. Jewell walking & talking, he hitched a ride with one of his friends to the hospital instead of riding in an ambulance. The Fulton County Medical Examiner’s Office tells us A.J.’s body showed evidence of a physical altercation — and they’re trying to determine the extent of those injuries while also looking to see if there “was another cause of death.” Wow. The suspect, Fredrick Richardson, is still being held without bail and has been charged with voluntary manslaughter. Stay Tuned- For Truth, Justice, & Closure.

-“The BklynBandette”. Mr. Hollywood’s Co-Defendant.

Exclusive Did kandi Burress fiance get killed because of sleeping with someone’s ex-wife?

that's veronca on the left

Hmmm You know they always say their are 3 sides to every story. I am hearing a lot of things from differen people. I am also hearing that other blogs sites are reporting this very same story.I myself when it comes to stories as intense and interesting as this do not like to read other blog sites and hear anything about what they have to say. So i took a quick trip down to the A and got with a very good friend of mine (who is a stripper at body tap and has been on a reality show) Anyone that has read my blog will figure out who i am speaking about but i will not reveal her name.The story i’m hearing is this.. Kandi Burress’s ex-fiance A.J Jewell was alledgedly dating a woman named veronica Jones. veronica is one of the owners of the nightclub Body tap in atlants the club that A.J alledgedly got beaten to death at.Her ex husband is a man they call”cornbread” he alledgedly heard about this fling going on between A.J and his ex wife and didn’t take to kindly to it.Now fredrick Richardson is one of the security staff members and Cornbreads right hand man. I asked my homegirl c……… precifically about this person and she assured me the stories u have been hearing about Cornbread and Fred Richardson being the same person is not true.. Richardson was sent by Cornbread(veronica jones)ex husband  to confront A.J

Sources say the fight spilled out into the parking lot where Jewell was stomped by unknown assailants. Jewell sustained head injuries from blunt force trauma to the brain. He was pronounced dead at Piedmont hospital.

Richardson was the money man who stayed behind the scenes. He kept himself low key and very rarely ventured outside his upstairs office during club hours. Even so, Fred was very well liked by celebrities and VIPs who exchanged thousands in cash for stacks of ones from Fred.

Sources also say Veronica and AJ were involved in a steamy sexual relationship that didn’t sit well with Fred or cornbread He [Fred] is hospitalized at Grady and will be charged with voluntary manslaughter. Recently in a interview A.J had told a blogsite that he was invested in a club and the interview at that time was said to be done at Body Tap. I believe the site was bossip.com  .. I am lookin deeper into this story to find out Cornbreads name and a pic of him.. My homegirl has since told me she does not want to get further involved

MY TAKE  Remember people by this time kandi and a.j was said to be broken up but my homie revealed that A.J was a smooth playboy type dude that was humble but once he was seen on that reality show his popularity with the women really went through the roof.” a lot of women would come up to him and say”what u doing with that washed up bitch”(referring to kandi) and all soughts of advances” A.J was a fine brother and then he started to take advantage of all the groupie love”

sad sad sad   I will keep you posted     SCREAM AT ME

EXCLUSIVE: Kandi Speaks UP & OUT On Behalf Of A.J. & Uncle.

Kandi Burress, formerly of the chart topping group Xscape & presently of Real Housewives Of Atlanta, has written an Exclusive blog which she expresses her grief over the loss of fiance A.J. Jewell & uncle Ralph. Here’s what Kandi had to share concerning the two great men in her life:

TIME

Why is it that every TIME something great is happening in your life it seems like its accompanied by something tragic? I have lost two very important men in my life in one week. The 1st was my Uncle Ralph, the 2nd is A.J.

My Uncle Ralph was one of my favorite people in the whole wide world. He was the type that could make you laugh even when you were pissed off and make you smile as soon as he walked in the room. My Uncle was one of my biggest supporters & he would do anything for me or the rest of my family. Even though he didn’t have any money he was always trying to give me little gifts. Which I thought was cute because he was just trying to show how much he cared event hough he knew I didn’t need it. Uncle Ralph was gay & always lived his life loud & proud. He partied like a rock star growing up & still enjoyed life as an older man. We first found out about his cancer at least two years ago. It went into remission for a while & eventually came back to claim his life slowly until TIME came for him to go to GOD.

When you loose someone to an illness like cancer it hurts bad, but at least you get a little TIME to prepare yourself for what’s coming. Some people make amends, some spend a little more TIME with the person in their last days, and others at least get a chance just to say “I love you”. When you know death is coming you get a chance to make preparations, and although its a difficult conversation you even get to ask the person what they would like to be done on their behalf. So what about when death comes as a suprise?

I hate to question God but don’t you hate when you feel like somebody was just taken away too soon? I just feel like A.J just had so much more living to do. Not that my Uncle didn’t, don’t get me wrong, but it just don’t feel right that A.J’s TIME is over.

There was so much that he wanted to do. When I spoke to him yesterday I never thought that it would be for the last TIME! A.J had a great spirit and he was a good man. He was a father of six kids but had other children that he raised and loved like his own, including mine. So AJ was a father to many. It truly bothered him the way he has been portrayed in the media and actually it has bothered me too. AJ was NOT a “Scrub” like so many people like to blog and say. He had his own when we got together. He did not need me for financial gain, nor did he use me to gain some type of celebrity. When we got together we had no clue that we would be on t.v.. In all actuality, A.J hated and was uncomfortable with being on camera. He also hated that we made the decision to be on the show. Off camera A.J was very charismatic and a friend to many. He believed in God and always genuinely tried to do the right thing.

He is gonna be missed by so many. Especially by his children, the biological ones & the ones he just claimed. When I told my daughter Riley she just cried all morning. I didn’t know what to do or to say to make her feel better. I started wondering how his other kids were handling it. That’s one reason why I feel like he was just taken too soon. Now they have no father. That breaks me down inside. They needed more TIME.

When you loose someone unexpectedly & sudden like we lost A.J there are all these unanswered questions. We didn’t get a chance to spend a little more TIME & make amends. Some of us didn’t get to say or just didn’t say “I love you”. I know I’m sitting here thinking about things I wish I would’ve done differently or things I wish I would’ve said that I’ll never get to do now. When you’re young you automatically assume that you got all the TIME in the world but then something like this happens and you realize that you’re not guaranteed TIME. It brings to life so many sayings that people say like, “Tell them that you love them everyday cuz you may never get to say it again” or “Don’t go to bed mad cuz they may not be here tomorrow”. A lot of young people don’t think about life insurance policies or wills because we think we have so much TIME. That saying TIME is valuable has never been more real to me than it is right now. TIME is way more important than money or tangible things but yet we take it for granted. Please take it from me, treasure the TIME you have with your loved ones & if there are issues or problems make sure you work it out before you run out of TIME….

Much Love,
Kandi

Please respect this sista’s privacy at this extremely difficult time.

-“The BklynBandette”. Mr. Hollywood’s Co-Defendant.

BREAKING NEWS: R.I.P. AJ JEWELL!

In late breaking news, multiple sources confirm that A.J. Jewell- formerly engaged to Kandi Burruss of Real Housewives Of Atlanta- passed away Friday evening. While exact details are still sketchy, we are told that Mr. Jewell was killed at a gentlemen’s club- Body Tap- in Atlanta, Georgia. Witnesses say Jewell died during an altercation between himself & some unidentified patrons. Our prayers & condolences go out to The Family & Friends of A.J. Burress. Keep it here for more details …